Minimizing decision making

How many decisions do we have to make each day? 10, 50 or even a hundred? If you add up the subconscious decisions we are forced to make, it might be beyond the thousands. Basically, it is good to be in a position in which you are allowed to make decisions. You have options and you are the person to decide. It is supposed to mean “freedom”. But, is it truly freedom? Does it make a difference whether I can choose to have the extra-chunky tomato sauce or the quattro-formaggi type of taste in my mouth when I am too tired to cook properly and just want to eat SOMETHING? Did I ever think like “Wow, I am so happy that I took the BBQ-chicken-taste pringles out of the rack because that moment changed my life”? Nä, not really. Is it supposed to be like that? No either. That’s good because it tells me that I am doing nothing wrong. So, I make a decision for the sake of decision making and not because I think that the gusto of BBQ-chicken pringles will change my culinary perception or because I think that BBQ-chicken does reflect my personality more properly than onion-flavored generic brands. Potato-chips do not represent me and I don’t want to be represented by my potato-chips. I can say: I have a fairly healthy horizontal relationship with my potato-chips and I am happy about it.

In other words: I don’t care. I don’t want to spend time to think about potato-chips, or the lunch-menu or anything that is not important to me. I want to pareto my decision making and I am sure that the ratio of modern decision making efficiency is not 80/20 but rather something like 99.99/0.01. So, why not making the decision to not make a decision when it comes to the 99.99 in daily life? That decision might be the 0.01. I started to not make decisions when it comes to eating. I am not allergic to anything and I eat almost anything and I have never met anyone who eats something that I am not comfortable eating myself. Therefore, if anyone asks me “Hey Ken, what do you wanna’ eat?” my answer is “I’ll have what you’ll have.” It seems that my answer confuses people. Suddenly they feel responsible and ask me questions like “Do you feel like eating pizza?”. It seems like the decision to not make a decision shifted the burden of decision making on other people around me and now I see that they are stressed because of it. I will continue this and I am looking forward to the day where someone says to me “Ken, be a man and choose your own food!”.

I think the problem is that we always want the best for ourselves. Options provide us the chance to find the best for us. However, as perfection is the enemy of the good, sometimes we should go along with the “good enough”. My friends choosing my meal is good enough for me. I trust them and sometimes I get to eat something that I wouldn’t have chosen in the first place. Thanks guys.

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How to turn annoying phone calls into fun.. for yourself and others.

Last post I wrote about how much I get annoyed when other people talk on the phone in trains. But how can you turn this into fun? … Actually, I’m a bit stuck. I thought about many ways to make this fun when I wrote the post last time. But, it seems that I have forgotten them all in the last couple of days and now I don’t know what to write. So, let me shortly write down the few things that I can still remember.

  • Address the other person with “Mr. President”, “Your majesty” (only initially, after that it’s “ma’am” , “Your honorable judge”, “His holiness” or simply “Capt’n”.
  • Speak different lingo: Talking like a pirate can be quite entertaining. You find basic information on ‘how to talk like a pirate’ on www.talklikeapirate.com. The following video teaches you the basics too.

… and the others I forgot. Sorry for that.

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